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My Journey

My Journey - From People-Pleasing to Self-Love, My Transformation Story
Like the beautiful butterfly that signifies transformation, I too have been on the journey of a lifetime—a voyage from the depths of people-pleasing to the heights of ultimate self-love. My story is one of metamorphosis, of shedding old skins and experiencing many deaths to embrace the radiant wings of freedom as I learnt to FLY – First Love Myself with many breath taking moments that sculpted my path from mere existence to a life ablaze with purpose.

It began with a silent epidemic—the disease of people-pleasing. I found myself entangled in the suffocating web of others' expectations, sacrificing my authenticity on the altar of acceptance. But like a determined warrior, I embarked on a quest to reclaim my sovereignty. Each step was a battle, every decision a skirmish against the relentless grip of anything and everything sent to keep me small and dimming my light. As the cocoon of complacency began to crack, I realized that life wasn't meant to be endured—it was meant to be savoured. Every sunrise, every laughter, every tear became a testament to the beauty of existence. I learned to dance with the present, embracing its fleeting magic with open arms. I accepted the beauty in suffering. So I made a powerful decision to become my most fierce protector, to never compromise my nervous system and to listen to the deepest most buried parts of me.

Like a caterpillar shedding its chrysalis, I underwent a transformation that continues to leave me breathless. From the depths of self-doubt emerged a creature of boundless potential—a butterfly, free to soar across the canvas of life. And as I spread my wings, I couldn't help but marvel at the beauty of my own evolution. Each scar, each triumph, painted a masterpiece of resilience—a testament to the indomitable spirit within.

They say a group of butterflies is known as an army, and indeed, my mission is to lead an army of emotionally liberated souls. Together, we stand as beacons of authenticity, warriors in the battlefield of self-discovery. For in our unity lies the power to ignite a revolution—a revolution of love, acceptance, and unwavering self-belief.


Make no mistake, the journey was not without its shadows. There were nights when despair gripped my heart like a vice, when the weight of the world threatened to crush my spirit. Yet in those darkest hours, I found solace in the flickering flame of resilience—a flame that refused to be extinguished, no matter how fierce the storm.Each of us is the hero of our own story. And though the road may be fraught with obstacles, it is in overcoming them that we discover our true strength. It is not the destination that defines us, but the journey—the journey from who we were to who we were always meant to be.

I am filled with gratitude for every twist and turn that brought me here. Working with me you will soon learn how much respect I have for the power of gratitude. For it is in the crucible of adversity that diamonds are formed, and I am grateful for every moment that shaped me into the person I am today. So let us embrace the journey, with all its joys and sorrows because in the end you will WIN!This is your story—embrace it, cherish it, and let it inspire others to embark on their own journey of self-discovery.



  • Cease people pleasing.

  • Stop denying hidden aspects of yourself.

  • Avoid hiding from your true, beautiful self beneath layers of social conditioning, family patterns, or self-doubt.

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